Tuesday, December 28, 2010

About me..myself..my childhood time


            Well, it’s really weird to write something about my life here but I believe not much people know me well even my past life. Since I decided to write something about myself here so there is nothing that I could hide. 1st of all, I would like to begin with a story telling which it was about a girl who had overcome all those obstacles that she’d faced since she was a baby girl. This girl named Lydia. Lydia was born in 1989 in a big family. Actually, there were about 14 family members lived in that small house that time which most of them were Lydia’s dad siblings. Perhaps before I continue to the next sentence, all of you might think that Lydia’s was come from a big and happiness family. In fact, her life was not as happy as you think. Why I said so?? Because her grandparents were totally not happy with Lydia’s family presence. Lydia really have no idea why her grandparents especially her grandpa was not happy with their presence until now. Lydia actually was in the centred of 5 of the children. Her father was just a painter which couldn’t earn much so her mother got an idea to become a baby sitter to take care of neighbour’s kids.
            However, Lydia’s family life still remains the same as her grandpa didn’t like them so much. Every time when Lydia’s eldest sisters wanted to have their revision at LIVING ROOM, her grandpa was walking down the stairs without sound. Can u imagine that scene???I’m guarantee u’ll really scared of this kind of action. Do u know the reason her grandpa came down???U will never know how cruel was this grandpa is……He was switching off all the light around the living room even the whole house. Really a cruel grandpa!!!!He also a selfish grandpa..why I said so??Becz he likes Lydia’s cousin more than Lydia’s sibling and Lydia. Every time when Lydia’s aunty (her father’s sister) came to their house, her grandpa always insulting Lydia’s family. Do u know what he said? He said to Lydia’s sibling: “ aiya,no need so rajin to study lar….u can’t even can study until higher education…What for so hardworking study during primary time??hahahaha.(He using Hokkien to say them)” Well, if u are Lydia’s mother or father, what is ur reaction towards these words???Lydia’s mothers still not giving up raising them up until higher education and so her father.
            Year by year, time by time….Lydia and her siblings was growing up and they still schooling until secondary. But all “tragedy” had not end yet….That tragedy really make Lydia’s family life turn from colourful to grey. Lydia’s grandpa was chasing Lydia’s family out from that house that they lived for about 20 years…!!!!!Can u imagine that????Lydia’s dad was paying a lot of money in that house compared to her uncle and when everything was been paid then her cruel grandpa was chasing them out!!!! Her grandma don’t even voice out from stopping. But thanks God is that Lydia’s parents got a new house where the house still under construction..They have no choice but just move into that still under construction new house.
            In year 2008 March 17, Lydia’s family had came to the 2nd tragedy that happened in her house. It was really a big lost for Lydia’s family as her father had dead in a car accident. Lydia’s family were definitely couldn’t accepted this fact as they lost their beloved father and husband for her mom. Lydia’s grandparents were crying out loud and blaming themselves. Well, this was the consequence that they chasing out Lydia’s family out from that house otherwise her dad will not dead in car accident. BUT ALL THIS COME TOO LATE!!!!No point for them to REGRET as Lydia’s dad was leaving from this land….
            This story is actually about my family….The name of Lydia is actually my name and all these were not a story but is a real life happened on me and my family as well. However, I really thank God for everything. Though my family and I had to overcome all these obstacles but I know God wanted us to learn from the past. Jesus Christ has changed my family life and me as well. So far, 6 of my family members that 4 of us had Baptist but my mother and younger brother also commit to believe in Jesus Christ .Of course, there still another things that I want to clarified here is that because of them who chasing out us & insulting us so much in the past, my sisters and I can gain until university and as well as both of my brothers…
           

4 comments:

  1. Add oil jia xin~ dont let those mindless people suppress your bright future. i support Jong family!! Show 'em what you're made of and may Him lead the way. Add oil!~ x)

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  2. Thanks,Brother Jia ler...ya ,u r right...we shudn't let those ppl suppress us..cz we r successful ppl than they r...:-)

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